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ATTENTION TO THE WOMAN SECRETLY GOOGLING AT NIGHT -

"HOW TO KNOW IF LOVE IS GONE?"

You Love Him But Not

In Love With Him

A no-BS course for the woman lying in bed next to him wondering, “Is this love… or just a habit I can’t break?” You haven’t felt connected in years. This course gives you the truth about why you feel numb, what’s actually driving your disconnection, and how to stop abandoning yourself in a marriage that may already be over — or might still be worth saving.

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‘Have I Fallen Out Of Love?'

In this exclusive course I'll be revealing:

  • The #1 reason you keep talking yourself into staying — even when you know deep down nothing is changing (and why this is not your fault, but it is costing you your sanity)

  • Why you should NEVER trust people who say “All marriages are like this”... especially when you’re dying inside but everyone else thinks your relationship looks fine

  • How your nervous system is wired to shut down love — and why no amount of talking is going to fix that unless you shift your state first

  • The real reason he walks into the room and you instantly feel tense — and how to break that pattern (even if he doesn’t change)

  • The honest TRUTH about making big changes when you feel like you’ve lost yourself in your marriage

  • And much much more.

It’s Not Bad Enough to Leave...

But It’s Not Good Enough to Stay

Forget cutesy checklists and recycled relationship tips.


This is the raw truth I needed when I was rolling my eyes and wishing he'd stop pawing at me.

‘5 Hidden Patterns That Keep You Waiting (and Wishing)

For Him To Change'

The Cold Hard TRUTH About Why Traditional Advice Isn’t Working on Your Marriage

Find out what’s stopping you from breaking the cycle of overthinking and second-guessing

5 Amazing Tips To Help You Decide If Your Marriage Can Be Saved — or If It’s Time to Walk Away

I’ve used these tips and tricks to accelerate the results for my clients so they start making BIG changes in their marriages much faster – now YOU can do the same!

Why Relying on Hope Alone Won’t Fix What Feels Broken

Hoping things will change - this is always going to help, right? Wrong! I'll show you why waiting and hoping quietly isn’t a plan — and the powerful shift that changes everything.

The Vital Key to Bringing Back Your Confidence in Your Choice

This all-important piece of the puzzle is crucial to getting back your faith in how you feel - and without it, ANY relationship will be on shaky ground – make sure you have this at all costs!

What Never to Do When Attempting to Save Your Marriage & Sanity

Please, never EVER do this on your mission to know if you're in love — or not (unless you want to stay confused and unfulfilled for YEARS longer than you need to)

About me...

Hi, I’m Pam.

And just a few years ago, I was exactly where you are.

I didn’t hate him.


But I didn’t feel love either.


Not the kind that lights you up or pulls you close.

I wasn’t crying myself to sleep…


But I also wasn’t sleeping peacefully.

I’d lie in bed next to him thinking,


“Is this what love is supposed to feel like?”
“Am I still in love… or just too tired to care?”

I felt numb. Stuck. Disconnected.


Buried under the roles of wife, mum, peacekeeper — and completely lost to myself.

If you’d told me back then that I’d one day feel more alive, more playful, and more in love with the same man — I would’ve rolled my eyes… or just stared blankly, too shut down to hope.

But here we are. 14 years in.


Still together. Nearly empty nesters.


And honestly? More connected than ever.

And no — it didn’t happen because he suddenly changed.


It happened because I did.

I stopped waiting for him to fix it.


I turned inward.


I asked the hard questions.


And I got radically honest about what I felt… and what I didn’t.

That’s what this course is about.

Not convincing you to stay.


Not pushing you to leave.

But helping you finally answer the question that’s been haunting you:

“Am I still in love… or am I just afraid to admit I’m not?”

You deserve real clarity.


You deserve to feel like you again.


Let’s start there.

Stop Hoping It’ll Just Fix Itself… Start With This Straight-Talking Course

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