Hi, I’m Pam.

And not that long ago, I was exactly where you might be now.

I wasn’t packing my bags.

I didn’t want to blow up my life.

But some days, lying in bed next to him, my mind wandered.

I’d catch myself thinking,

“What would it be like with someone else?”
“Why do I feel more alive imagining that than I do with the man I married?”

I didn’t hate him.

But I felt restless. Unseen. Unwanted.

I wasn’t flirting with anyone in secret…

But inside, I was aching for something more.

The spark between us had faded into routine.

The fun had been buried under bills, kids, work, and years of quietly swallowing my feelings.

If you’d told me back then that I’d one day feel excited to see him again, actually want to reach for his hand, and feel that rush of attraction — I would have laughed.

Not because I didn’t want it…
But because I couldn’t even imagine it.

But here we are.
Fourteen years in.

Same marriage.
Different energy.

And no...it didn’t shift because he suddenly turned into someone else.

It changed because I stopped pretending my fantasies didn’t mean anything.
I stopped brushing off what they were trying to tell me.

I got honest about what I was craving, and learned how to bring that energy back into my own life (and marriage).

That’s what this masterclass is about.

Not shaming yourself.
Not shaming him.

But unpacking what’s really going on so you can finally decide:

Is this a sign your marriage is over?
Or is it the wake-up call you needed to breathe life back into it?

You deserve clarity.
You deserve passion.

You deserve to feel alive again — right where you are.

Let’s start there.