Speaker • Trainer • Educator
I refuse to believe we spend 40+ years becoming ourselves
just to play it safe
from here.
I speak about the stories, expectations and relationships that shape who we become ...
and what happens when we start questioning them.
Expect stories. Psychology.
Behaviour change.
A few uncomfortable truths.
And probably a prop.
I like talks that make people laugh - then catch themselves thinking about something differently on the drive home.
Who Are You Becoming Next?
Identity, reinvention & the second half of life
There comes a point when the life you've built fits… but somehow doesn't fit quite the same anymore.
This talk explores who we become after decades of roles, expectations and doing what made sense
and the freedom that comes from asking what do I actually want now?
Great for: women's events • midlife • leadership • wellbeing • business
Who Told You That?
The stories we mistake for facts
We all carry around rules about who we are, what we're capable of, what relationships should look like and what's “too late” for us.
But where did they come from? A funny, psychology-backed look at the stories running our lives...and what can happen when we start questioning them.
Great for: conferences • workplaces • women's events • personal development
The Long Relationship
What nobody tells us about loving the same person for a very long time
We're taught how to fall in love. We're given remarkably little help with what happens ten, twenty or thirty years later.
Familiarity, attraction, resentment, identity, changing bodies, changing lives.
This talk takes an entertaining and refreshingly human look at what it actually takes to keep choosing each other as both people change.
Great for: women's events • wellbeing • relationship events • podcasts
