FOR THE WOMAN WHO'S TRIED DATE NIGHTS, THE BOOKS,

THE COUPLES COUNSELLING...

YOUR

RELATIONSHIP TRANSFORMATION

STARTS HERE!

Relationship Rescue™ - Is It Too Late?

No love, no intimacy, constant arguments...and you start wondering,

Is it time to divorce?

This is where I can help!

Not your usual "Talk Therapy", but a new way of looking at

relationship counselling.

Yes it might be time to divorce - but it also might be time to shift your old patterns.

This relationship coaching is for you if:

You've tried relationship counselling before and nothing changed

Your partner doesn't want to commit to counselling

(you CAN make massive changes (alone) in the Relationship Rescue™ program)

You are uncertain and fearful of your next steps in your relationship

You feel like you're the only one in your marriage trying

You feel like you love him, but not IN love with him

You want to bring back your identity in your relationship

How You Can Make Changes in Your Marriage

Free eBook to Your No BS Answers...

Feel numb, confused, or like you’re living with a roommate instead of a partner?

This no-fluff guide walks you through five powerful questions that cut through the overthinking and help you get real about where your marriage stands — and

what to do next.

If you’re stuck between “should I stay or go?” — start here.

90 Day Transformative Program

For women ready to learn more, you will realise that your own healing is the catalyst for your growth - and

your partner’s.

In 90 days, you’ll clear the emotional fog, stop repeating old patterns, and finally know whether to stay and rebuild — or leave with peace and certainty.

No more overthinking. Just clarity, confidence,

and a real plan forward.

Self-paced Marriage SOS Courses

No-fluff, self-paced trainings to help you clear the fog, understand what’s really going on, and decide your next move with confidence — whether that’s reigniting the spark, rebuilding trust, or knowing when it’s time to walk away.

What Other's Say....

FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS

I don't know whether to stay in my relationship, can you help me?

Absolutely! For so many couples, knowing what's the right decision to make is hard.

This is what Relationship Counselling is for.

It's my job to help you (either alone or with your partner) uncover that and pull out the truth of where you are and what you truly want to do in life.

Word of warning - it's my job to boost your confidence so much that YOU decide what you want to do for you. This doesn't always mean staying. This can also be starting fresh. But the choice becomes clearer for you to make.

Does relationship counselling work?

This gets asked a lot! And really, the question turns into - what's the definition of "work"?

If by work, we mean...

  • Will you feel confident to make the decision that's right for you? Then yes, it works.

  • Will you feel more love for yourself and therefore others? Then yes, it works.

  • Are you going to be more in control of your reactions, your communication, your ability to handle conflict? Yes!

As a coach with expertise in psychology and behaviour, I quickly get to the root of the problem and guide you into shifting these patterns with new ways of communicating and treating each other.

Does it guarantee that your relationship will become exactly what you want? No. Because there are 2 parties involved.

Does it guarantee that you (and for couples who participate in the program together - both of you!) will feel clearer on your direction, your outcomes and your desires? Yes!

And for those couples committed to doing the work, you'll be amazed at what you can do to shift the passion, the fun, the connection in your relationship.

What's your guarantee?

Following all steps in the program and in the trainings will give you the techniques to completely transform your relationship.

BUT - just as you can't hire a personal trainer and expect them to do the weights for you and for you to see the results - I do not have a magic wand! You need to complete the program as outlined to see the results.

I will kick your a$$ when needed and ultimately -

You are responsible for showing up and putting in the work. If you don't use the techniques, you won't see any changes!

I can't guarantee your relationship will become perfect and long-lasting.

What I guarantee, is you will feel more amazing about YOURSELF and your life - no matter what's going on around you.

What's the cost?

I am passionate about helping anyone from all backgrounds and all budgets to access advice and guidance in context of love and relationships. As a former single-mum, I know I couldn't afford coaching and therapy when I was struggling to put food on the table for my kids!

For this reason I give out as much content as I can for FREE! (see my socials for this!)

I want you all to succeed in your relationships.


I run many free and super-cheap workshops you can attend.

Group workshops are aimed at remaining an affordable price for you to attend and get huge value from the programs.

Private relationship counselling varies in price, depending on individual/couples needs, goals and wants.

I work closely with a dedicated finance company, who do what they can to help their clients invest in themselves. Payment plan options can start from as little as $25 a week! (and that's like...roughly, 4 coffees a week?!). Have a look at some of their options here...

TLC Finance Company

For many couples, investing in improving their relationship comes too late - and they're staring at the possibility of losing half of everything you own from expensive divorce lawyers and courts...compared to that route, relationship counselling is cheap!!

I've heard a quote once from a male motivational speaker that made me chuckle -

"IT'S CHEAPER TO KEEP HER"

I encourage you to reach out for options.

Let's chat to make a plan together xx

We don't have much time - how much work is there?

Yes, fitting ANOTHER thing in to your busy schedule can seem crazy. I agree! The work we do together is about clearing your life to make things easier.

We can design a plan for the program that works for you/you both.

See the options for programs and courses to see the possibilities.

What is different about your couples counselling?

There are many differences that I use in my programs compared to traditional counselling.

1) NLP

As a Master Practitioner and Trainer, I use techniques from NLP = Neuro Linguistic Programming (I know, what a name, right!!)

NLP helps us identify what you're doing in your head, the patterns that you've developed over years of functioning - then changes those patterns to serve you better.

2) Time Line Therapy ®

For 20+ years I carried around trauma from my childhood. 20+ years of traditional talk therapy, seeing Psychologists, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, even studying Psychology myself...and never managed to clear my triggers from my experiencing sexual abuse.

I was sick and tired of talking about it and re-living it!!

Then I experienced Time Line Therapy ®!

It is a process that allows you to clear yourself from crappy experiences and memories - without you even having to tell me what they are!! Imagine that - a process that doesn't require MORE talking about what went wrong!?

For many clients, Time Line Therapy ® leaves them feeling lighter and more in control of their emotions and decisions in their relationships - and life!!

3) Me First, Us Forever™ Program

You CAN work alone!

One of the biggest differences is that I work with individuals in the context of their relationship.

If one party finds the idea of couples counselling aversive - that's ok.

You can make MASSIVE differences from one person alone.

As I did - see my story in the About Me section.

Shifting old patterns, trauma, self-doubt, jealousy...and anything else that's come along with you all these years. This is where the magic happens.

Don't forget...it's not your partner's job to fix a trauma they didn't create!

And if they did make mistakes that you're finding hard to let go - then let's do the work together to free you from it!

Read My Blog

Why Talking, Trying and Therapy Haven't Worked with a couple walking in a shadow

Why Talking, Trying and Therapy Haven't Worked

August 20, 20252 min read

If you’ve ever thought to yourself, “We’ve tried everything and nothing’s working,” you’re not alone.

Most women who come to me say the same thing:

  • “We’ve tried talking.”

  • “We’ve tried therapy.”

  • “We’ve tried date nights.”

  • “We’ve tried really, really hard.”

And yet… their marriage still feels stuck.

So what's going on? Why hasn’t it worked?


The Problem With Talking

Talking is important. But when you and your partner keep circling around the same issues, the conversations start to feel like groundhog day.

Instead of finding solutions, you end up stuck in the same cycle:

  • You talk.

  • You argue.

  • You retreat.

  • Nothing changes.

Talking about the problem doesn’t necessarily change the patterns that keep causing the problem.


The Problem With “Trying Harder”

How many times have you thought, “If I just try harder, maybe it’ll get better?”

The truth is, trying harder often feels like pushing a boulder uphill. You exhaust yourself, you resent him for not matching your effort, and you end up even more disconnected.

Effort without the right tools doesn’t equal progress.


The Problem With Therapy

Therapy can be amazing for some things — but often it keeps you focused on the past, or on understanding the problem without actually clearing it.

It’s like shining a torch on the wound but never stitching it up.

Many of my clients tell me therapy gave them awareness… but not the transformation they needed to feel different in their marriage.


So What Actually Works?

Here’s the part most people never tell you:


Your marriage shifts when you shift.

When you stop waiting for him to change and start clearing the baggage, triggers, and patterns running in the background — that’s when things begin to look different.

It doesn’t mean you do all the work forever. But it does mean you take back your power, instead of handing it over to circumstances or waiting for him to “get it together.”


The Bottom Line

If you’ve been frustrated that talking, trying, or therapy haven’t fixed things — it’s not because you’re broken or your marriage is doomed. It’s because those approaches don’t get deep enough.

When you start clearing what’s really in the way — your triggers, resentments, and old stories — you stop running the same loops.

And when that changes, everything changes.


💡 Want to explore what this could look like for you?
[Apply here for a private call] — if it’s the right fit, we’ll uncover what’s been keeping you stuck and the fastest way forward.

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With a degree in Psychology and now as an NLP Master Coach and Trainer, Pam is here to help women create their dream relationships - even if they are unsure whether to stay or go.

Pam Reid

With a degree in Psychology and now as an NLP Master Coach and Trainer, Pam is here to help women create their dream relationships - even if they are unsure whether to stay or go.

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