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No love, no intimacy, constant arguments...and you start wondering,
Not your usual "Talk Therapy", but a new way of looking at
relationship counselling.
Yes it might be time to divorce - but it also might be time to shift your old patterns.
This relationship coaching is for you if:
You've tried relationship counselling before and nothing changed
Your partner doesn't want to commit to counselling
(you CAN make massive changes (alone) in the Relationship Rescue™ program)
You are uncertain and fearful of your next steps in your relationship
You feel like you're the only one in your marriage trying
You feel like you love him, but not IN love with him
You want to bring back your identity in your relationship
6 Week Group Program
For women ready to learn more, you will realise that your own healing is the catalyst for your growth - and your partner’s.
We identify and clear those emotions that have been holding you back, returning you to your true self.
Once the layers of protection, fear, old stuck patterns and emotions are gone, you discover that you have more power than you ever thought possible.
Be ready to go DEEP! This one requires an investment of time and a commitment to be ready to do the work.
Over 6 - 8 sessions, discover what is really holding you back in your relationship - and life - and clear what needs clearing.
One of my favoured programs, clients comment that they feel lighter and clear to move forward on completion of this program.
NLP, Hypnosis and Time Line Therapy®️ Trainings - designed for those women who are ready to learn more about how their mind works and HOW they are doing what they are doing.
After studying Psychology and having 20 + years of therapy, counselling and psychologists getting nowhere with my "issues" it wasn't until I studied NLP did I learn the tools to change what I was doing in my head.
This is the training that will give you the most significant shift in your relationship - and the choices you make for YOU!
Absolutely! For so many couples, knowing what's the right decision to make is hard.
This is what Relationship Counselling is for.
It's my job to help you (either alone or with your partner) uncover that and pull out the truth of where you are and what you truly want to do in life.
Word of warning - it's my job to boost your confidence so much that YOU decide what you want to do for you. This doesn't always mean staying. This can also be starting fresh. But the choice becomes clearer for you to make.
This gets asked a lot! And really, the question turns into - what's the definition of "work"?
If by work, we mean...
Will you feel confident to make the decision that's right for you? Then yes, it works.
Will you feel more love for yourself and therefore others? Then yes, it works.
Are you going to be more in control of your reactions, your communication, your ability to handle conflict? Yes!
As a coach with expertise in psychology and behaviour, I quickly get to the root of the problem and guide you into shifting these patterns with new ways of communicating and treating each other.
Does it guarantee that your relationship will become exactly what you want? No. Because there are 2 parties involved.
Does it guarantee that you (and for couples who participate in the program together - both of you!) will feel clearer on your direction, your outcomes and your desires? Yes!
And for those couples committed to doing the work, you'll be amazed at what you can do to shift the passion, the fun, the connection in your relationship.
Following all steps in the program and in the trainings will give you the techniques to completely transform your relationship.
BUT - just as you can't hire a personal trainer and expect them to do the weights for you and for you to see the results - I do not have a magic wand! You need to complete the program as outlined to see the results.
I will kick your a$$ when needed and ultimately -
You are responsible for showing up and putting in the work. If you don't use the techniques, you won't see any changes!
I can't guarantee your relationship will become perfect and long-lasting.
What I guarantee, is you will feel more amazing about YOURSELF and your life - no matter what's going on around you.
I am passionate about helping anyone from all backgrounds and all budgets to access advice and guidance in context of love and relationships. As a former single-mum, I know I couldn't afford coaching and therapy when I was struggling to put food on the table for my kids!
For this reason I give out as much content as I can for FREE! (see my socials for this!)
I want you all to succeed in your relationships.
I run many free and super-cheap workshops you can attend.
Group workshops are aimed at remaining an affordable price for you to attend and get huge value from the programs.
Private relationship counselling varies in price, depending on individual/couples needs, goals and wants.
I work closely with a dedicated finance company, who do what they can to help their clients invest in themselves. Payment plan options can start from as little as $25 a week! (and that's like...roughly, 4 coffees a week?!). Have a look at some of their options here...
For many couples, investing in improving their relationship comes too late - and they're staring at the possibility of losing half of everything you own from expensive divorce lawyers and courts...compared to that route, relationship counselling is cheap!!
I've heard a quote once from a male motivational speaker that made me chuckle -
"IT'S CHEAPER TO KEEP HER"
I encourage you to reach out for options.
Let's chat to make a plan together xx
Yes, fitting ANOTHER thing in to your busy schedule can seem crazy. I agree! The work we do together is about clearing your life to make things easier.
We can design a plan for the program that works for you/you both.
See the options for programs and courses to see the possibilities.
There are many differences that I use in my programs compared to traditional counselling.
1) NLP
As a Master Practitioner and Trainer, I use techniques from NLP = Neuro Linguistic Programming (I know, what a name, right!!)
NLP helps us identify what you're doing in your head, the patterns that you've developed over years of functioning - then changes those patterns to serve you better.
2) Time Line Therapy ®
For 20+ years I carried around trauma from my childhood. 20+ years of traditional talk therapy, seeing Psychologists, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, even studying Psychology myself...and never managed to clear my triggers from my experiencing sexual abuse.
I was sick and tired of talking about it and re-living it!!
Then I experienced Time Line Therapy ®!
It is a process that allows you to clear yourself from crappy experiences and memories - without you even having to tell me what they are!! Imagine that - a process that doesn't require MORE talking about what went wrong!?
For many clients, Time Line Therapy ® leaves them feeling lighter and more in control of their emotions and decisions in their relationships - and life!!
3) Me First, Us Forever™ Program
You CAN work alone!
One of the biggest differences is that I work with individuals in the context of their relationship.
If one party finds the idea of couples counselling aversive - that's ok.
You can make MASSIVE differences from one person alone.
As I did - see my story in the About Me section.
Shifting old patterns, trauma, self-doubt, jealousy...and anything else that's come along with you all these years. This is where the magic happens.
Don't forget...it's not your partner's job to fix a trauma they didn't create!
And if they did make mistakes that you're finding hard to let go - then let's do the work together to free you from it!
Infidelity is a choice made by your partner, often influenced by their own unresolved issues.
Infidelity. Betrayal. Lies.
These words carry an emotional punch, don’t they?
If you’re in a relationship marred by infidelity or dishonesty, you’re likely feeling raw, confused, and maybe even a little lost.
The pain of discovering your partner has lied to you or broken your trust is one of the deepest betrayals you can face.
But here’s the thing—while the betrayal itself is devastating, it’s often the emotions it triggers that cut the deepest.
For many of my clients, infidelity doesn’t just hurt because of the act itself—it’s because it reopens old wounds.
Let me tell you about a client I worked with. She came to me after discovering her partner had been unfaithful. At first, she was consumed by feelings of inadequacy:
“I’m not good enough.”
“I’ll never be enough for him.”
“What’s wrong with me?”
But as we dug deeper, it became clear these feelings weren’t new.
They weren’t born in her marriage—they’d been quietly simmering since childhood.
Growing up, she constantly felt overshadowed by siblings, unworthy of attention, and doubting her own value. Her partner’s infidelity wasn’t just a betrayal in the present—it had torn open those old wounds, making the pain feel unbearable.
If you’re navigating infidelity in your marriage, you might relate.
Those feelings of not being enough often stem from much earlier in life. Childhood experiences, past relationships, or even a deep-seated low self-esteem can all play a role in amplifying the devastation you feel now.
Infidelity and lies from a partner can set off a cascade of self-doubt:
“Why wasn’t I enough for them?”
“What did I do wrong?”
“Will I ever be able to trust again?”
But here’s what’s important to know: It’s not all about you.
Infidelity is a choice made by your partner, often influenced by their own unresolved issues.
Yet, it’s hard not to internalise it as a reflection of your worth.
And when those lies bring up echoes of past pain, it can feel impossible to separate the current situation from the weight of those old wounds.
Here’s the truth: Infidelity doesn’t just break trust in the relationship—it breaks trust in yourself.
That’s why it’s not enough to focus only on healing from your partner’s betrayal.
The deeper work lies in addressing your own triggers—those deeply rooted beliefs that whisper you’re not good enough, not lovable, or not worthy.
It is possible to clear the strong emotions tied to what’s happened in your relationship. But more importantly, it’s possible to go even further.
By addressing the old wounds and emotional triggers that infidelity brings up, you can find healing that goes beyond this relationship.
Whether you choose to stay and rebuild your marriage or decide to move on, doing this inner work ensures that those old wounds no longer control you.
Imagine not being haunted by feelings of inadequacy, no longer reacting to betrayal with a lifetime of baggage weighing you down.
Healing from infidelity isn’t just about your partner changing—it’s about you finding peace within yourself.
Clearing the triggers tied to old wounds and building a stronger foundation of self-worth can change how you show up in this relationship—or the next.
You don’t have to carry the weight of the betrayal—or the echoes of your past—forever.
If you’re ready to stop the pain from defining you, know this: healing is possible.
Whether you choose to stay or go, you can reclaim your confidence, your worth, and your future.
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