From Midlife Crisis to Midlife Clarity

When life is feel stuck...lost your purpose...and you're wondering ...

Is This Really All There Is To Life?!

It's time to re-set.

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7 Day Training is coming up!

This life-changing training is for you if:

- You're unsure of your true path

- You're looking for clarity and a new direction

- You have past trauma and experiences

that are weighing you down

- You know you are made for more and

want to find that spark again


Change Your Thinking

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Are you ready to change your life so significantly that you don't recognise the person that you become?

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Building on the solid foundation that is your NLP Practitioner skills, your knowledge will be taken to deeper lengths.
These 14 days see you become a master of your techniques and skills.

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Learn the power of your mind to long lasting change old patterns and habits.

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I don't know what I want to do in life, can you help me?

Absolutely! For so many women, knowing what they want is bundled up in layers - under all the other things they've been prioritising in their lives.

This is what the life-changing training is all about!

It's my job to help you uncover that and pull out the truth of who you are and what you would love to be doing.

Is it worth hiring a coach?

This gets asked a lot! Is it worth it? Only you can answer that! Are you happy with where you are at? Is what you are currently doing getting you the results you want? Are you progressing as quickly as you want to?

For many people that I have worked with, they were in a place where they couldn't see their blocks and their obstacles.

As a coach with expertise in psychology and behaviour, I quickly get to the root of the problem and guide the client into shifting these patterns. Without coaching, clients may have developed new ways of thinking...but how long would that have taken?

They are now equipped with life changing skills to use throughout their life.

What's your guarantee?

All work and trainings with me are guaranteed. If you don't get the result you want in an agreed timeframe, I will work with you until you do! Following all steps in the program and in the trainings will give you the techniques to completely transform your life.

BUT - just as you can't hire a personal trainer and expect them to do the weights for you and for you to see the results - it's not a DO TO process...It's a DO WITH process.

I will kick your a$$ when needed and ultimately -

You are responsible for showing up and putting in the work. If you don't use the techniques, you won't see any changes!

What's the cost?

I am passionate about helping all women from all backgrounds and all budgets to access advice and guidance.

For this reason I give out as much content as I can for FREE!

I want you all to succeed.

I run many free and super-cheap workshops you can attend.

Private coaching varies in price, depending on individual needs, goals and wants.

NLP & Hypnosis Trainings start at $720 and go all the way up to $15,000!

I work closely with a beautiful company that help finance clients who know the power of investing in their own personal growth and wellbeing. Payment plan options can start from as little as $40 a week! (and that's like...roughly, 5 coffees a week?!)

For many women, investing in themselves is not a common practice.

If you knew the impact that improving you will have on those you love, you won't think twice about investing.

Don't let those money blocks get in your way.

Let's chat to make a plan together xx

What is NLP?

NLP = Neuro Linguistic Programming (I know, what a name, right!!)

At the most simple terms - NLP is the study of excellence.

Someone getting amazing results? What are they doing, how are they doing it?

Someone achieving something you want? How so? What's their procedure?

Someone doing what you want to do?

What can I learn from them and do it too?

Simply put -how the mind/body/language interaction impacts our behaviour.

Ultimately, NLP asks:

What result do I want?

Why don't I have it now?

Who has achieved what I want to achieve?

How can I get that result?

Read My Blog

Is It Me or My Job?

Do I Hate My Job Or Do I Hate Working?

August 05, 20233 min read

Stuck in a Job You Hate?

Discover the Surprising Truth

Behind Your Career Dissatisfaction


Have you ever found yourself sitting at your desk, feeling an overwhelming sense of frustration and discontentment? Maybe you catch yourself daydreaming about a life where work no longer plays a significant role. If you're experiencing such emotions, you may be wondering, "Do I hate my job, or do I hate working altogether?"

In this blog, I'll explore the difference between hating your job and hating work itself, offering insights to help you make sense of your feelings.

How Do I Know if I Really Hate My Job?

Identifying whether your feelings stem from a deep dislike for your current job or a broader aversion to the concept of working can be challenging. There are several key indicators that can help you discern the source of your dissatisfaction:

  1. Lack of Passion: If you once felt enthusiastic and engaged in your job but have gradually lost interest and find it difficult to muster any enthusiasm, you may be facing a job-specific issue.

  2. Negative Emotions: Constantly experiencing negative emotions, such as dread, anxiety, or sadness, when thinking about work or during working hours, could be a sign of job-related discontentment.

  3. No Growth Potential: Feeling stuck in your current position with limited opportunities for professional growth and development can lead to job dissatisfaction.

  4. Toxic Work Environment: An unhealthy workplace culture, unsupportive colleagues, or a lack of recognition for your efforts can contribute to hating your job.

Should You Keep Working If You Hate Your Job?

Deciding whether to continue in a job you hate is a complex and personal choice. While some circumstances may require immediate action, it's essential to consider the potential consequences before making a decision:

  1. Financial Stability: Evaluate your financial situation and whether leaving your job would lead to significant financial strain. If possible, create a financial plan to support a potential career change.

  2. Job Market and Opportunities: Research the current job market and explore potential career paths. Assess if there are opportunities that align better with your interests and skills.

  3. Personal Health and Well-being: Persistent job dissatisfaction can take a toll on your mental and physical health. Prioritise your well-being when making career decisions.

Do I Hate My Job or Am I Just Burned Out?

It's essential to differentiate between hating your job and experiencing burnout, as they can share similar symptoms. Burnout is characterised by feeling emotionally drained, overwhelmed, and mentally exhausted due to chronic workplace stress. It can lead to a lack of motivation and decreased job satisfaction. However, burnout doesn't necessarily mean you hate the work itself.

If you suspect burnout, consider taking steps to address the underlying issues before making any drastic career changes:

  1. Self-Care: Prioritise self-care practices such as exercise, mindfulness, and spending time with loved ones to reduce stress and recharge.

  2. Set Boundaries: Establish clear boundaries between work and personal life to prevent burnout from spreading into other areas of your life.

Is It Okay That I Hate My Job?

It's entirely normal to have periods of dissatisfaction with your job or career. However, prolonged and intense feelings of unhappiness can significantly impact your overall well-being and happiness. Remember that acknowledging your feelings is the first step towards finding a solution:

  1. Seek Support: Talk to friends, family, or a professional coach about your feelings. A supportive network can offer valuable insights and guidance.

  2. Consider Coaching: If you find it challenging to navigate your career dissatisfaction alone, consider seeking assistance from a qualified career coach. They can help you gain clarity, identify strengths, and explore new opportunities.


Navigating the complexities of job dissatisfaction can be overwhelming, but understanding whether you hate your job or the act of working itself is a crucial starting point.

Reflect on the key indicators mentioned in this article to gain insights into your feelings. Remember, you have the power to make positive changes in your career and life.

If you need further guidance and support, consider reaching out to a professional career coach, like the services offered by Pam Reid Performance Coaching.

Together, we can uncover new paths that lead you to live life on your terms. Let's rise together!

With a degree in Psychology and now as an NLP Master Coach and Trainer, Pam is here to help clients quit their 9-5 and live the life they have always dreamed of.

Pam Reid

With a degree in Psychology and now as an NLP Master Coach and Trainer, Pam is here to help clients quit their 9-5 and live the life they have always dreamed of.

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