YOUR

RELATIONSHIP TRANSFORMATION

STARTS HERE!

When your relationship has lost it's mojo...

No love, no intimacy, constant arguments...and you start wondering,

Is it time to divorce?

This is where I can help!

Not your usual "Talk Therapy", but a new way of looking at

relationship counselling.

Yes it might be time to divorce - but it also might be time to shift your old patterns.

This relationship coaching is for you if:

You've tried relationship counselling before and nothing changed

Your partner doesn't want to commit to counselling

(you CAN make massive changes in the Solo Couples Counselling Program)

You are uncertain and fearful of your next steps in your relationship

You face constant arguments and conflict in your relationship

You want to make things work for the family

You want to bring back your identity in your relationship

What Other's Say....

FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS

I don't know whether to stay in my relationship, can you help me?

Absolutely! For so many couples, knowing what's the right decision to make is hard.

This is what Relationship Counselling is for.

It's my job to help you (either alone or with your partner) uncover that and pull out the truth of where you are and what you truly want to do in life.

Word of warning - it's my job to boost your confidence so much that YOU decide what you want to do for you. This doesn't always mean staying. This can also be starting fresh. But the choice becomes clearer for you to make.

Does relationship counselling work?

This gets asked a lot! And really, the question turns into - what's the definition of "work"?

If by work, we mean...

  • Will you feel confident to make the decision that's right for you? Then yes, it works.

  • Will you feel more love for yourself and therefore others? Then yes, it works.

  • Are you going to be more in control of your reactions, your communication, your ability to handle conflict? Yes!

As a coach with expertise in psychology and behaviour, I quickly get to the root of the problem and guide you into shifting these patterns with new ways of communicating and treating each other.

Does it guarantee that your relationship will become exactly what you want? No. Because there are 2 parties involved.

Does it guarantee that you (and for couples who participate in the program together - both of you!) will feel clearer on your direction, your outcomes and your desires? Yes!

And for those couples committed to doing the work, you'll be amazed at what you can do to shift the passion, the fun, the connection in your relationship.

What's your guarantee?

Following all steps in the program and in the trainings will give you the techniques to completely transform your relationship.

BUT - just as you can't hire a personal trainer and expect them to do the weights for you and for you to see the results - I do not have a magic wand! You need to complete the program as outlined to see the results.

I will kick your a$$ when needed and ultimately -

You are responsible for showing up and putting in the work. If you don't use the techniques, you won't see any changes!

I can't guarantee your relationship will become perfect and long-lasting.

What I guarantee, is you will feel more amazing about YOURSELF and your life - no matter what's going on around you.

What's the cost?

I am passionate about helping anyone from all backgrounds and all budgets to access advice and guidance in context of love and relationships. As a former single-mum, I know I couldn't afford coaching and therapy when I was struggling to put food on the table for my kids!

For this reason I give out as much content as I can for FREE! (see my socials for this!)

I want you all to succeed in your relationships.


I run many free and super-cheap workshops you can attend.

Group workshops are aimed at remaining an affordable price for you to attend and get huge value from the programs.

Private relationship counselling varies in price, depending on individual/couples needs, goals and wants.

I work closely with a beautiful company that help finance clients who know the power of investing in their relationships. Payment plan options can start from as little as $40 a week! (and that's like...roughly, 5 coffees a week?!)

For many couples, investing in improving their relationship comes too late - and they're staring at the possibility of expensive divorce lawyers and courts...compared to this, relationship counselling is cheap!!

I've heard a quote once from a male motivational speaker that made me chuckle -

"IT'S CHEAPER TO KEEP HER"

I encourage you to reach out for options.

Let's chat to make a plan together xx

We don't have much time - how much work is there?

Yes, fitting ANOTHER thing in to your busy schedule can seem crazy. I agree! The work we do together is about clearing your life to make things easier.

We can design a plan for the program that works for you/you both.

See the options for programs and courses to see the possibilities.

What is different about your couples counselling?

There are many differences that I use in my programs compared to traditional counselling.

1) NLP

As a Master Practitioner and Trainer, I use techniques from NLP = Neuro Linguistic Programming (I know, what a name, right!!)

NLP helps us identify what you're doing in your head, the patterns that you've developed over years of functioning - then changes those patterns to serve you better.

2) Time Line Therapy ®

For 20+ years I carried around trauma from my childhood. 20+ years of traditional talk therapy, seeing Psychologists, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, even studying Psychology myself...and never managed to clear my triggers from my experiencing sexual abuse.

I was sick and tired of talking about it and re-living it!!

Then I experienced Time Line Therapy ®!

It is a process that allows you to clear yourself from crappy experiences and memories - without you even having to tell me what they are!! Imagine that - a process that doesn't require MORE talking about what went wrong!?

For many clients, Time Line Therapy ® leaves them feeling lighter and more in control of their emotions and decisions in their relationships - and life!!

3) Solo Couples Counselling

You CAN work alone!

One of the biggest differences is that I work with individuals in the context of their relationship.

If one party finds the idea of couples counselling aversive - that's ok.

You can make MASSIVE differences from one person alone.

As I did - see my story in the About Me section.

Read My Blog

Lottery Win

Here's Why Lottery Winners Go Broke

September 17, 20234 min read

Become a millionaire not for the million dollars, but for what it will make of you to achieve it..” - Jim Rohn

The Lucky and the Lost:

5 Reasons Lottery Winners Go Broke within 3-5 Years


Winning the lottery is a dream come true for many people.

It’s the solution on many people’s lips …

“If only I won the lottery!! Then everything would be ok!!”

The idea of a sudden windfall of millions of dollars is undeniably tempting.

The stress of no money, not making ends meet and worrying about that next unexpected bill coming in is not nice.

I was with a guy once who said his family were the poorest at his boarding school.

Oh boo hoo.

It felt like my family was the poorest in public school, mate!


My mum went bankrupt at one stage as she got herself in a scary position of too much debt and not enough coming in.

Scary.

I know the impact of no money.


Yet, the reality is that 70% of lottery winners find themselves broke within 3-5 years of the win.


Why is this?

Here are 5 reasons why lottery winners don't keep their money.

1.Same patterns

How you live now, is how you’ll live anywhere with anything.


If you don’t change your patterns, your thinking in your neurology, you won’t change anything.


Your relationship with money will remain the same.


Think about this…

  • Are you good at saving?

  • Do you live pay cheque to pay cheque?

  • Do you buy unnecessary stuff?

  • Do you always feel like you don’t “have enough”?


How you feel about money now, will be exactly the same after a win.


No matter what you had in your bank – yeah, it might be on a grander scale…but?!

If you want to see money differently, change deep rooted patterns.


2. Boundaries

Winning the lottery can be isolating.

How many times have you heard someone say “if you won that money, you’d have to give me some?’

Friends and family may treat lottery winners differently - with some taking advantage of their new wealthy mate!


Who to trust?!


Add to the mix people pleasing and a lack of boundaries…

There’s a recipe for a money crash disaster!

If you lack boundaries now – what would be different when you had money in the bank?

The amount of people you’d have coming out of the woodwork!!

If you’re a people pleaser now – what would be different with a wad of cash in your pocket?

You’d feel like you had to say yes to everything!

And then, when you did say no – how would you feel?? How would people respond to that?


3. Financial knowledge

Ok, I’m going to lay it out straight.


If you think winning the lottery would solve all your problems…there’s a chance you aren’t making money and smashing the finances like the Warren Buffet’s of the world...!


Winning a large sum of money could be overwhelming.

Without the necessary knowledge and skills to manage this newfound wealth, it's easy to make poor decisions.


Not knowing how to invest, save, or budget (as mentioned about patterns!) is bound to lead to some costly mistakes.


Winning the lottery would be a life-changing event.


But if you were unprepared for the financial challenges it brings – what would be different for you? And yes, crying in a Mercedes instead of a Toyota is more appealing.

You're still crying though.


Would it be better to change your patterns now, rather than hoping and praying for that windfall to change your life?

What if you changed your thinking first…

And let those very changes were what allowed more money in??


Ps. I have not won a sum of money and nor do I believe I will – or want to!

I have though, changed my whole mindset on money!

On how much I need.

On the fear I felt with “not enough”.

I trust money will always come to me – in the amounts I am ready for.

I do believe I will make a large sum of money.

And that by changing clients patterns around money – they too can live lifes they’ve always dreamed of.


Pam is a former burnt out single mum and teacher and now is a NLP Trainer and Coach, helping women design lives they've always dreamed of.

Coming from average - schooling, grades, money...she's had to overcome her own struggles to choose a different lifestyle. To find out more, get in contact with Pam here.

With a degree in Psychology and now as an NLP Master Coach and Trainer, Pam is here to help clients quit their 9-5 and live the life they have always dreamed of.

Pam Reid

With a degree in Psychology and now as an NLP Master Coach and Trainer, Pam is here to help clients quit their 9-5 and live the life they have always dreamed of.

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