From Midlife Crisis to Midlife Clarity

When life is feel stuck...lost your purpose...and you're wondering ...

Is This Really All There Is To Life?!

It's time to re-set.

NLP Practitioner Training

The next life-changing

7 Day Training is coming up!

This life-changing training is for you if:

- You're unsure of your true path

- You're looking for clarity and a new direction

- You have past trauma and experiences

that are weighing you down

- You know you are made for more and

want to find that spark again


Change Your Thinking

NLP Practitioner Training

7 Day Event

Only 3 Times A Year

Are you ready to change your life so significantly that you don't recognise the person that you become?

Master NLP Practitioner Training

14 Day Event

Only 1 Event A Year

Building on the solid foundation that is your NLP Practitioner skills, your knowledge will be taken to deeper lengths.
These 14 days see you become a master of your techniques and skills.

Hypnosis Certification Training

3 Day Modern Training

Learn the power of your mind to long lasting change old patterns and habits.

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I don't know what I want to do in life, can you help me?

Absolutely! For so many women, knowing what they want is bundled up in layers - under all the other things they've been prioritising in their lives.

This is what the life-changing training is all about!

It's my job to help you uncover that and pull out the truth of who you are and what you would love to be doing.

Is it worth hiring a coach?

This gets asked a lot! Is it worth it? Only you can answer that! Are you happy with where you are at? Is what you are currently doing getting you the results you want? Are you progressing as quickly as you want to?

For many people that I have worked with, they were in a place where they couldn't see their blocks and their obstacles.

As a coach with expertise in psychology and behaviour, I quickly get to the root of the problem and guide the client into shifting these patterns. Without coaching, clients may have developed new ways of thinking...but how long would that have taken?

They are now equipped with life changing skills to use throughout their life.

What's your guarantee?

All work and trainings with me are guaranteed. If you don't get the result you want in an agreed timeframe, I will work with you until you do! Following all steps in the program and in the trainings will give you the techniques to completely transform your life.

BUT - just as you can't hire a personal trainer and expect them to do the weights for you and for you to see the results - it's not a DO TO process...It's a DO WITH process.

I will kick your a$$ when needed and ultimately -

You are responsible for showing up and putting in the work. If you don't use the techniques, you won't see any changes!

What's the cost?

I am passionate about helping all women from all backgrounds and all budgets to access advice and guidance.

For this reason I give out as much content as I can for FREE!

I want you all to succeed.

I run many free and super-cheap workshops you can attend.

Private coaching varies in price, depending on individual needs, goals and wants.

NLP & Hypnosis Trainings start at $720 and go all the way up to $15,000!

I work closely with a beautiful company that help finance clients who know the power of investing in their own personal growth and wellbeing. Payment plan options can start from as little as $40 a week! (and that's like...roughly, 5 coffees a week?!)

For many women, investing in themselves is not a common practice.

If you knew the impact that improving you will have on those you love, you won't think twice about investing.

Don't let those money blocks get in your way.

Let's chat to make a plan together xx

What is NLP?

NLP = Neuro Linguistic Programming (I know, what a name, right!!)

At the most simple terms - NLP is the study of excellence.

Someone getting amazing results? What are they doing, how are they doing it?

Someone achieving something you want? How so? What's their procedure?

Someone doing what you want to do?

What can I learn from them and do it too?

Simply put -how the mind/body/language interaction impacts our behaviour.

Ultimately, NLP asks:

What result do I want?

Why don't I have it now?

Who has achieved what I want to achieve?

How can I get that result?

Read My Blog

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Can Women Have a Midlife Crisis?

May 29, 20243 min read

Am I having a Midlife Crisis?

It’s your 40’s – and are you gently flowing down a beautiful stream, allowing the tide to take you on a wonderful, peaceful journey….or are you careening around like an out of control bus without Keanu Reeves as the driver ?


If you’re anything like the women I work with – you’re the latter!!


And it doesn’t feel as exciting as watching Sandra Bullock do it.

Can women have a midlife crisis

For women navigating a midlife crisis, the journey can be filled with uncertainty and emotional turbulence. Many grapple with questions about their identity, feeling lost in both personal and professional realms.


There's a palpable sense of discontentment with career paths chosen and a longing for deeper fulfilment.


Alongside this, there's the struggle with changing body image, a source of insecurity in a society that often favours youth.


Relationship dynamics add another layer of complexity, with strains appearing in various facets of life. As children get older, marriages are filled with a couple who suddenly realised they don’t really know each other like they used to.


Existential ponderings about the meaning of it all…combined with the real truth of mortality… a sense of urgency for change arises.


Whether the rug has been pulled from under their feet from a health scare, losing a loved one or a big change in circumstances, women start to ask…


Is this all there is to life?

The search for meaning intensifies.


With women questioning their life choices, their values, and their sense of purpose.


The most exciting part about this time of a woman’s life?


 This period of questioning can lead to profound personal growth. PROFOUND!!!

Here are some steps you can take to help during midlife...

1) Stillness:

For many women, they have looked after others all their life. They’ve been the good girl, the people pleaser, the dependable one, sacrificing their own needs so much that they have lost who they are – and what they REALLY want.


Finding ways to still an overactive mind such as meditation, yoga - even taking yourself for a quiet walk in nature – can all help in listening to and discovering your deeper voice that knows the truth in how you feel and what you want to be doing.


Explore new passions:

Without having the chance to do much for yourself, you might be wondering what you even love doing! This is the perfect time to explore interests and activities that ignite your passion and bring you joy. Whether that’s painting, hiking, cooking classes or pottery…give some new hobbies a go and see what that does to zesting up your life.



Show yourself kindness and understanding for yourself as you navigate this challenging phase.

Practice self-compassion by acknowledging your feelings without judgment and treating yourself with the same warmth and empathy you would offer to a dear friend.


Seek Support:

Don't hesitate to lean on friends, family, or a professional coach for support. Sharing your experiences and emotions with others can provide comfort and perspective during times of uncertainty.


Ultimately, looking at your midlife as the opportunity to do something new, something for yourself can bring you immense joy.

With age comes wisdom...and the world needs more wisdom right now!

If you’re looking at ways to grow and re-invent yourself, a self-development program might just be what you need.


Surrounding yourself with likeminded women on similar journeys is a beautiful way to thrive in this time of your life.

If you're ready, I can't wait to hear from you!

Much love,



With a degree in Psychology and now as an NLP Master Coach and Trainer, Pam is here to help clients quit their 9-5 and live the life they have always dreamed of.

Pam Reid

With a degree in Psychology and now as an NLP Master Coach and Trainer, Pam is here to help clients quit their 9-5 and live the life they have always dreamed of.

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