YOU DON’T WANT SEX LIKE YOU USED TO.
AND YOU’RE STARTING TO WONDER WHAT THAT MEANS.
SOMEWHERE ALONG THE WAY...
SEX CHANGED.
You remember wanting it.
The chemistry. The anticipation.
The feeling of being turned on before anyone even touched you.
Then life happened.
Years together.
Work. Kids. Stress.
Familiarity.
Changing bodies.
Changing hormones.
The same person.
The same bedroom.
Sometimes the same sex.
And now maybe you don't want it
very often.
Maybe you don't know what turns you on anymore.
Maybe you're wondering whether you'd want it more with someone else.
Maybe you can orgasm, but only in one very specific way.
Maybe you're having sex, but you're not particularly excited by the sex you're having.
Or maybe you've started wondering...
Is this just what happens now?
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Because nobody really taught us how desire works.
We were taught about periods, pregnancy and contraception.
Maybe STIs.
But who taught us about pleasure?
About our anatomy?
About orgasm?
About what happens to desire in a long-term relationship?
About figuring out what we actually like ... and having the confidence to ask for it?
About keeping sex interesting after 10, 20 or 30 years with the same person?
There is so much more to
learn about sex.
And about yourself.
This is for you if:
You don't want sex like you used to — and you're not really sure why
You don't know what turns you on anymore... or you're not sure you ever really did
Sex has become predictable, infrequent or something you could happily take or leave
You can orgasm, but you rely on the same thing every time — and you're curious whether there's more
You struggle to switch off, let go and actually enjoy what's happening in your body
You find it hard to tell your partner what you want — especially when you don't quite know yourself
You want to feel more confident in your body and less worried about how you look during sex
You want more fun, play and experimentation — but have no idea how to change the sex you've been having for years
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